This article i cited in my blog just to give info on how to deal with backstabber......
First of all ENJOY what you have and treat the backstabber like any other human being: hopefully with friendliness or at least respect. Do not draw attention to yourself. If they start making comments that undermine you IGNORE them. Find out what it is that they want. If you are intending to move on in your job anyway then you can be as benevolent as mentoring your backstabber and delegating some of the additional stress and workload that may have accompanied your success. REMAIN POSITIVE NO MATTER WHAT your aura of cheerfulness will alert your colleagues that you are honest and trustworthy which will make the backstabber look even more guilty and stinking if they have been going behind your back gossiping. DO NOT GET INVOLVED in their smelly and petty little world.
First of all ENJOY what you have and treat the backstabber like any other human being: hopefully with friendliness or at least respect. Do not draw attention to yourself. If they start making comments that undermine you IGNORE them. Find out what it is that they want. If you are intending to move on in your job anyway then you can be as benevolent as mentoring your backstabber and delegating some of the additional stress and workload that may have accompanied your success. REMAIN POSITIVE NO MATTER WHAT your aura of cheerfulness will alert your colleagues that you are honest and trustworthy which will make the backstabber look even more guilty and stinking if they have been going behind your back gossiping. DO NOT GET INVOLVED in their smelly and petty little world.
A friendship is based on mutual respect not one persons need to be a control freak. If it is your friend and not just a colleague that has back stabbed it will be more painful. But remember, all the people who do not behave like that and deserve your friendship and time MUCH MORE.
Dalam dunia yg serba canggih ni masih terdapat lagi these people...so,watch out...it happen to anyone...
Source:Friendship drama: How to handle backstabber, hhtp;www.helium.com assesed on 3.08.2010
2 comments:
article yg bgs..setuju sgt2..
ignore them..i belive in karma..
wut goes around..comes around..
so..same goes to backstabbers..
one day they'll get what they had given..;))
waspada itu penting! -paan ;D
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