AidILfITrI 2010....

Salam Followers sekalian.....

Sedar tak sedar...da half of ramadan kite da tempuh...well,bnyk mana amalan kite kaut stakat ni?? masih x cukup? xpe...masih ade masa lagi....

Hm...bercerita pasal Aidilfitri tahun ni....mmg agak lega sebab everything is SDN BHD...alhmdulillah....by right, im not longer depend on my parents...thats made me satisfied with myself..even cmne pun amy x nah lupe untuk parents...mama n ayah..bhgn mereka tetap amy lunaskan...:) so far, this Raya gives me meaning of VALUE of my own MONEY...sikit2 amy akan trus belajar untuk jd INSAN yang lebih baik dr hari ke hari...

Raya thn ni yg beza nye...Nenek Johor xde...itu yg wat rase xde seri nak balik Johor lagi...tp tok sedapkan hati, amy pikir...mak cik n pakcik2 yang de kat sana..yg selalu support amy dr belakang...:) that what we called family...Kenangan beraya ngan ARWAH nenek...ade satu tyme ni,tyme amy umur 8 thn kot...hari terakhir nk raya..amy nak teringin nk minum air kotak mangga..nangis2 nak buke..ayah n mama of course x kasi...last2 nenek bangun and trus bagi buke...ishhh tu la yg masih melekat kt otak ni...Ape2pun...thn ni raya mmg nk g ziarah kubur nenek...syes,walaupun amy x rapat ngn dia cmne amy rapat ngn nenek belah ayah...tapi pieces of her LOVE will remains in my heart...

Alfathihah......Hajah Kamsiah Abdullahh......

This raya then, we will gather in PULAU INDAH...this is request from our grandma...surprisingly but yet we r happy to gather this tyme around...to my lOVELY kazens...wait ha...mlm raya kite gosssssippp smpi ke pagi...hahaha x sabar rasanye...

To all my family n friends...slamat wat preparations for this raya..asgnment n test jgn lupe lak...( remind myself though)...hehehe..

Backstabber

This article i cited in my blog just to give info on how to deal with backstabber......

First of all ENJOY what you have and treat the backstabber like any other human being: hopefully with friendliness or at least respect. Do not draw attention to yourself. If they start making comments that undermine you IGNORE them. Find out what it is that they want. If you are intending to move on in your job anyway then you can be as benevolent as mentoring your backstabber and delegating some of the additional stress and workload that may have accompanied your success. REMAIN POSITIVE NO MATTER WHAT your aura of cheerfulness will alert your colleagues that you are honest and trustworthy which will make the backstabber look even more guilty and stinking if they have been going behind your back gossiping. DO NOT GET INVOLVED in their smelly and petty little world.

A friendship is based on mutual respect not one persons need to be a control freak. If it is your friend and not just a colleague that has back stabbed it will be more painful. But remember, all the people who do not behave like that and deserve your friendship and time MUCH MORE.

Dalam dunia yg serba canggih ni masih terdapat lagi these people...so,watch out...it happen to anyone...

Source:Friendship drama: How to handle backstabber, hhtp;www.helium.com assesed on 3.08.2010